Mar
8
2010

Coffee and WiFi

I should be working. But now that I’ve escaped our messy home; I feel inspired to write, for fun. I need to fill out the census form (late), pay some bills, and do taxes. All of which I tried to do at home but kept feeling annoyed and distracted by socks and dishes and things.

Monday is always a total carnage situation of domestic sloppiness at our house. I usually plan cleaning, not paperwork because of the Monday mess. But for some reason I imagined that today I could ignore it and at least work on the taxes.

Not so. I’ve run off to a cafe with wi-fi. I came actually for a croissant. But then arrived and wanted asiago bread. I’ve been known to drive 50 miles for croissants.

I no longer feel sick. But I’m tired. And this does not make for a lot of productive housework. Friday I hung shelves in the laundry room. They’re nice and level, though way too high for anything but storage. Then Saturday I felt exhausted and sat on the couch doing taxes.

I pulled DD out of ballet. She’s annoyed. So am I. She wants to go, and just goof off. I think if she’s going to go and we’re going to pay tuition her teacher should teach, not babysit the toddler they allowed to enroll. Anyway, too late to join a new program this season. And it’s time for swim lessons.

DD has developed a sudden aversion to water. She screams in the bathtub and says she does not want swim lessons – which is exactly why she needs them. I taught swim lessons when I was a teen. So in theory I could teach her. But it has been my experience that things go much more smoothly if the instructor is a stranger. Kids are weird like that.

I am going to continue to ignore the charcoal colored, elastic/cotton hat knitting attempt. I’m now on the lookout for organic cotton for a pattern that may or may not be more simple.

I started a hood/cowl thing in bamboo silk blend for me, mainly because I had the yarn and sort of a pattern. The Silk Fountain Hood pattern confused me. So I’m just knitting a very simple lace pattern, which is working out fine. Though by the time I finish I may have to throw the cowl in with the winter clothes and down into the basement until next year.

DH is impatient for me to become a better knitter. He wants a new hat.

I pruned the cherry tree and have been gathering the sucker branches to make a compost bed. It is far from a work of beautiful manicured gardening. But in my opinion, preparing compost for future caprice salad ingredients is more important.

Off to the census.

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Feb
28
2010

It Lives

Yes, folks, I am still alive and attached to the planet. Thanks for asking. I caught a cold that wouldn’t go away, which eventually became a sinus infection. I tried a few times to post, but felt like I had nothing positive, or even dark humored to say. So rather than whine, I took a health break.

In my absence:

  • DD broke her collar bone, which has mostly healed.  We made a build a bear to cheer her up.
  • Stuffing the Build A Bear

    Stuffing the Build A Bear

  • I am now reasonably healthy. I won’t be turning cartwheels. But at least I feel up to poking a little fun at myself.
  • I watched a few movies, since that was the level of my energy.  And some television.  I usually feel bad when I act like a couch potato.  But I actually felt bad enough already to escape guilt.
  • Alpaca Silk Scarf (prior to completion)

    Alpaca Silk Scarf (prior to completion)

  • I continued my amazingly slow, moderately successful knitting.  Which is to say that I started DH’s hat project attempt three times and have since tossed it to the bottom of the bag.  Finished a scarf that needs blocking, because my first attempt at blocking it seems not to have affected it at all.  And started my own version of the Silk Fountain Hood pattern.  My own version because I have bamboo/silk, not pure silk, and the original pattern is lacy beyond my skills.

I watched Coming Home, with Jane Fonda and Jon Voight.  Mainly I watched it because it occurred to me that it was recent at film time, Americans having pulled out of Vietnam for good in 1974, and the movie being released in 1978.  And I remember my father ranting that Hanoi Jane had no business making a movie about the plight of any veteran.  And that was years later, when the movie came out on video.  He was still totally indignant.

It was interesting.  I found it most interesting that Fonda’s character wished most for, if trapped on a desert island, a husband.  And this was considered unremarkable.  I think that would be appalling now.  Her relationship with husband was interesting too, not very intimate and seemingly unsatisfying.

Voight’s character, confined to a wheel chair, begins bitter and develops from there.  It was interesting to see him looking so young.  And also interesting to see Fonda looking relatively the same as she does now, which I find suspicious.

I had thought that the way coming home from Vietnam would be portrayed differently in 1978 than it is now.  But I didn’t find Coming Home to be tremendously different in concept than any other post war film.  So it must be universal, at least on film.

I also saw Fear with Mark Wahlberg and Reese Witherspoon.  The thing that I wonder about most with that film is why the producer or writer, or whomever makes such decisions, felt it necessary to make it over-the-top obvious that Wahlberg’s character is a criminal.  I wonder why, because I don’t think having a criminal record is a requirement for being a frightening, abusive person.

I’m looking forward to the new episode of Southland coming out this week.  Though I hope I will get my energy back and be too busy doing things other than watching tv to care much.  I told DH I might do some gardening today.  And he gave me that look that said if I tried it he might have to intervene.  So maybe a couple days before any attempted gardening.

I want to prune some plants that need it badly, and use the prunings to make a bed for tomatoes.  My attempts at organic gardening annoy DH and the neighbors, who prefer to purchase expensive commercial items.  Whereas, my idea of good gardening is to use kitchen refuse for compost and cover it up with pine straw, and use yard refuse like prunings to build beds rather than expensive plastic stuff.

Yeah, it looks sort of like a birds nest at first.  But then the twigs settle, and plants grow and just the plants are noticeable.  I do always have to buy topsoil.  Because we just have hard red clay.  And no amount of household compost alone could keep a new plant alive in my yard.

DH made fun.  But we had fresh tomatoes and basil until October last year.  And enough dried lavender to make lavender oil, sachets, and still have some left over.

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Jan
26
2010

System Failure

The system would be me. I seem unable to keep up with anything in the past year. I feel as though things snowballed on me, that I just now noticed.

On the up side, I have recently resumed the purge of unnecessary household objects. And have delivered several carloads of stuff that was cluttering up the garage and house to Goodwill and The Place. This makes me feel much better, in spite of the fact that the stuff had piled up so high in the first place. At least now we’re going in the right direction.

Cleaning out my grandmother’s apartment really put me behind in my own cleaning. And then… I brought many of her belongings to my house. Trumpet please, announcing way too much stuff. I had given so many of her possessions to charity and friends that I felt that I should keep more things out of respect than I actually needed.

However, I have just given the wool sweaters to Aunt D. I had tried to line them so that I could wear them myself. But it looked ugly. So I gave up on the lining and then just held onto the sweaters waiting to find somebody who could wear them. When I realized Aunt D is the same size and wears wool, I brought the sweaters over. I’m glad they have a new home. I just couldn’t bear to throw them in the donation bin. My grandmother loved those sweaters. I needed be sure to give them to somebody who would really enjoy them.

I have felt so lousy the past several weeks that I have done very little writing. So much so that when I finally tried to log in to my sewing blog, I found the account locked. Fortunately, this was easily fixed with a note to support.

In my absence, the today.com network has changed their revenue policies. I think this will be for the better. But I haven’t fully check it out. Another thing I must see about.

I managed to make money on another venue on royalties from past work, in spite of my current lag monster status. That was nice and cheered me up for a minute.

The knitting is going pretty well, generally. I received my orders from Knitpicks and Elan. And I’ve been experimenting and working on a simple scarf. It seems that I can tolerate alpaca. I’m working with an alpaca/silk/nylon blend yarn. It took a while to get used to it. But now I seem to be able to keep the tension pretty even. Hopefully, when the scarf is finished, I’ll be able to wear it around my neck and not have to give it away.

I got a very brief note from grandmas attorney. As soon as I saw the envelope I had terrible anxiety. Of course they want to know if I’ve closed everything out. And I have not. Every time I do something related to my grandmothers estate it just spirals out into a drama. I feel ill just thinking about it. Still the end is in sight. After months and months, less items that need to be addressed by me are rolling in. The only things really problematic left are family related. Which is where I see doom.

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Jan
25
2010

Knitting and Other Mishaps

In today’s episode of handbag mishaps, I foolishly put DDs bottle of water into my purse without first checking to see if the cap is screwed on. I end up with a lake, at the bottom of which is my car registration and some overpriced makeup.

Leather Handbag

Leather Handbag

Nice work, mom.

I managed to dry out the registration without tearing it. It was all folded up and in an envelope. And I really thought I’d be paying the county a fee to get them to issue me another copy. But I managed to extract it from the envelope, and spread it out to dry. It is still legible. Though I won’t win any awards for tidiness if I need to present it.

I cleaned up the lake with napkins and the coffee cup cozy that I recently knitted. I was thinking that it was my first functional project. But the dishcloths have turned out to be very useful. So it is my first project that required sizing. It is a little loose. I used it like a towel. Very absorbent.

coffee cup cozy

coffee cup cozy

I ordered ten different types of yarn from Knitpicks and Elann. Most of them are from Elann, which is killer on the shipping, since it’s Canadian. One yarn is either alpaca, or an alpaca blend. I don’t remember which. One skein of yarn seems a reasonable gamble to determine whether or not I can tolerate, and even enjoy alpaca. If not, I will pass it along, no harm done.

The rest of the yarns are cottons and blends with hemp, linen and silk. Some have touches of acrylic and elastic, which I’ve read are terrific to have blended with cotton and other non-stretchy fibers.

And I got a one-skein knitting book, so I’ll have something to do with all the random yarns – or try anyway. And I got two stitch holders, and some stitch markers, guessing about the sizes. I don’t know what kind I’ll like or will work well with the types of yarn I’ll have. But since it is all a big experiment, I’m willing to just try them out.

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Jan
18
2010

Helen Georgia

We had a great day Saturday. DH and I drove up to Helen. If you’re not familiar with Helen, Georgia, it is this shockingly tacky little town in the mountains. The residents reinvented it as a German village, and have a number of German themed restaurants and bars. DH says the allure is that one could get drunk and make a fool of themselves there feeling that they would not be out of place.

We went to get away for the afternoon. MIL kept the kids. It is silly that DH and I hardly ever get an afternoon to ourselves, since there is a teenager completely capable of a few hours babysitting, and the in-laws not so far away. But that is the reality. We spend most of our weekends with family. It’s nice. But it’s equally nice to get some couple time.

Also, there is the granary. And since DH has been doing a lot of baking, fresh grain has become even more alluring. And going there is fun.

Nora Mill Granary

Nora Mill Granary

I went searching for locally made goods other than grain, and was really disappointed to find that most of the other items in the store had a home spun look, but were imported from all over. I did find some locally made honey lollipops. Then after I had purchased them found some soaps, ironically, made close to our house. So I went back through the line and got those too.

The coffee shop next door was badly overheated. I couldn’t stand it and went outside.

And of course, we went to the Habersham Winery and sampled the wine (not me so much). The bartender was trying to help out this young man by getting the woman with him very drunk. DH was astonished by how much wine she purchased. Possibly it was that she had had so much of it to drink.

I don’t usually buy more than one or two bottles. But I can see why you would want to have it around. Then you don’t have to think about buying it, just pull one out when you are going to a gathering. Also, it’s really fun to have lots of variety and a tale about buying it.

Before we left, both of us scoured the restaurant recommendations. Most all of them had mixed reviews, except for Safari Steakhouse, which was just all bad. Which left us without much for a recommendation. So we went to the Nacoochee Grill. I couldn’t remember why I knew it. But once we arrive, remembered that I ate lunch there with friends a few years ago. It’s a cute place. The food was good, but not fantastic. And we didn’t have to look at really bad uniforms.

We ate lunch first, then enjoyed the touristy stuff. Then we went to Hofer’s Bakery for coffee. It has all the super tacky decor and tremendously unflattering clothing. The coffee was good. The croissant, mediocre. I saw baguettes when we arrived. But by the time we left they were gone. And all that was left was rye bread. Boo. I didn’t get a picture. But click the link to their site to see the spectacular tackiness.

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